This year has been a year of introspection or full of  ‘ah ha’ moments. I need to fully understand WHY things are the way they are and what that means for my future. Taking this time means I reflect, evaluate and learn. If I don’t, I know that it means I will continue to choose the same door but in a different colour until I truly learn. 

My 2023 has been all about closure and tying up loose ends so I can start fresh for 2024. Some endings are harder than others but I believe  that all of them lead to new beginnings. I do not see endings as a failure because I was brave enough to try and strong enough to leave what no longer served me. 

Right now, I am taking time out before I make any major decisions to regroup my thoughts, reflect on my lessons and decide how my next chapter will look. More importantly, how I want to feel in my next chapter. Choose your problems wisely and remember we have a choice in everything.

What I do know is when I sit still and tune out the noise, my intuition ramps up to an all time high to deliver clarity where there is confusion. Using this breathing space to reconnect with myself allows me to recognise what I need to do to live my best life. Taking time is not unproductive if you spend it on self development. 

When all is said and done; I like to remind myself that absolutely everything we experience in our lifetime happens to teach us about ourselves. Some lessons are tougher than others. The people who trigger us the most have the best lessons to teach which often results in the biggest growth. Blessing or lessons, I believe the words are interchangeable. 

At the end of the day, the most important relationship we need to have is with ourselves. Don’t we owe it to ourselves to live our lives authentically? 

I hope you have enjoyed my 2023 blogs. This year I have really opened up to share my story because it’s mine to share. I hope it’s put context to the girl in the pictures. Being your escort gives me an abundance of time to invest into myself and I appreciate that gift. I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. I’ll be sure to resume my blogs again next year with the aim to do 1-2 a month. Touch base if you have any questions or topics you would like me to write about.

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